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Breastfeeding: Not As Easy As It Looks

Did you breastfeed your baby?

Breastfeeding is a natural way to feed a baby but formula is another option.

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends “exclusive breastfeeding for about the first six months of a baby's life.”

AAP reports that breastfed babies have less risk of sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) and obesity.

“..choosing to breastfeed should be considered an investment in the short- and long-term health of the infant, rather than a lifestyle choice,” says the AAP.

For some moms, breastfeeding comes easily. But for other moms, it can be a challenge, one that sometimes cannot be sustained. Some moms simply do not have enough milk. Other moms experience pain or have other health issues that create a problem.

My son ended up in the neonatal intensive care unit days after he was born because he was dehydrated. Despite my best efforts, my body was not producing enough milk for him. He was given formula to supplement the milk I was giving to him. I was lucky enough that my milk production caught up and we were able to discontinue the formula not long after taking him home from the hospital, but this was not the end of our breastfeeding challenges.

My son and I never fell into a comfortable feeding routine as it became more and more painful for me to feed him. As the weeks went by, the pain became so intense that it was all I could do not to scream every time I fed my son. I went to my OBGYN. I went to our pediatrician, and I had a private lactation consultant come to our home.

Finally, I was referred to a pediatrician who specializes in breastfeeding issues. She diagnosed my son as being tongue tied and cut his frenulum. That was the end of that issue. I was lucky to have found someone to correctly diagnose and treat the issue we were having. Every mother is not so lucky.

I’m glad that through nursing and pumping, I was able to provide my son with breastmilk for the first year of his life.

I am not alone in the issues I faced, but I was lucky to have been able to resolve them. Not every mother is so lucky and not every issue can be overcome before a mother gives up or dries up.

And with or without these issues, breastfeeding is a time-consuming labor of love. It takes over your body in many ways thsoe who have not done it can never understand, and it is not for everyone.

Formula can be an alternative.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention data from a survey of infants born in 2006 found that 73.9 percent were breastfed and 43.4 percent were still breastfeeding at 6 months.

How did you make your decision to breastfeed or to use formula? What obstacles did you encounter and what help did you find?

Andrea Lynch February 03, 2013 at 07:21 PM
Great article! I was lucky when my first daughter was born to have a sister who warned my of how painful it is when your baby latches on. That was important information for the first time Mom who has only read things that describe the process as natural and blissful (maybe because I was so anxious to succeed). I was also very lucky to have a pediatrician who recognized my desire to breastfeed and strongly encouraged me to continue even when my baby did not appear to be thriving as she should. In addition, my mother-in-law, a WWII bride, was very much opposed to my breast-feeding so I eventually learned to make sure that I only nursed when she was not around! Crazy!
Elizabeth February 03, 2013 at 09:15 PM
I used to have to ice up my cracked and bleeding breasts and put a pillow under the baby to grab/squeeze when he latched on. I also watched TV (today I would have used DVDs) to distract my brain. After about seven weeks, all was fine. My second baby was no problem at all.
Cherie England February 04, 2013 at 02:46 AM
It's the best thing in the world. Weening my son will surely be harder on me than him. My advice for new moms is to stick with it. It will get easier if you don't give up. Anyone know of any mommy and me groups in or near Broomall?
Lucy Bennett (Editor) February 04, 2013 at 05:28 PM
Cherie, you might want to try http://www.delawarecountymoms.com/ or http://www.meetup.com/ if you haven't so far.
Dawn Thomas February 04, 2013 at 05:53 PM
I breastfed all three of my children. With my first two, I had to be back to work rather quickly, so they only averaged about 3 good months of exclusive nursing until my schedule made it nearly impossible for me to keep my supply up. With my third, I was able to nurse for 11 months, but had issues because she had a milk protein allergy that inhibited me from consuming dairy products (great weight loss) horrible selection (everything has milk in it). Anyway, I had various issues with all of my children in terms of production, pain, and scheduling and I appreciated that all of my healthcare consultants never made me feel guilty about the decisions I made, they made sense to me and my family at that time...breastfeeding is a very personal thing...do what's best for you and yours.
Ursula-Nicole February 17, 2013 at 03:36 AM
My son had formula from day one :)

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